
I have seen many people that are
successful and want a relationship, and also vice versa. The point is
when you have one you always look for the other.
If one is building a healthy relationship
then that relationship will propel you toward success because it gives you the
confidence as if you are able to do anything. The confidence is that you have someone
that sees you for you and still has your back.
I mentioned these comments on FB, but here
is what I did not mention.
An intimate relationship really teaches
you about yourself. It teaches you how you deal with your personal mistakes,
how you react when someone hurts you, and also how you handle change and
growth. Also, it shows you how you adapt to the world around you because
no relationship is perfect. Sometimes relationships experience tight spaces.
But when you navigate through this in a healthy relationship it helps to
celebrate who you are but also allows you to feel comfortable in your mistakes
and faults so you can continue to grow.
Also we as beings that are always trying
to find and solidify our place in the world have to be conscious of the road we
travel to get there. Whatever road we choose guides our vision of how we see
the world and also the tools we use to show up in the world. So if you
consciously choose to wait until you are successful to allow a meaningful
intimate relationship to happen then you will most likely judge the depth and the
value of your "relating" to people through that success. You
will also judge your value within a relationship based upon what your external
will offer and not the unlimited gifts your internal offers. It teaches
you to hide under a veil of something that exists totally on the outside that
extends from your ego.
Whatever decision one makes, you must be honest about the reasons
why you are making such a concrete decision regarding the flow of your
life. You must be honest with yourself
because most of the time it has to do with how you feel about your being. Even if a person decides they must have a
relationship prior to success, one must ask themselves is it because they feel
inadequate traveling through life alone; or maybe it’s because for them to feel whole they must be in a
relationship. Even this presents a challenge.
I am not totally sure what the right
answer is…but what I know for sure is that we must be careful in telling the
universe how our life is going to happen and in what order for sometimes we
miss our unique designed blessed path.